1. Between the World and Me has been called a book about race,
but the author argues that race itself is a flawed, if not useless,
concept - it is, if anything, nothing more than a pretext for racism.
Early in the book he writes, "Race, is the child of racism, not the
father." How does discrediting the idea of race as an immutable,
unchangeable fact change the way we look at our history. Ourselves?
2. Fear is palpably described in the book’s opening section and shapes
much of Coates’s sense of himself and the world. "When I was your age,"
Coates writes to his son, "the only people I knew were black, and all of
them were powerfully, adamantly, dangerously afraid." How did this far
inform and distort Coates’s life and way of looking at the world? Can
you relate to his experience? Why or why not?
3. The book is written in the form of a letter. Why do you think Coates
chose this literary device? Did the intimacy of an address from a father
to his son make you feel closer to the material or kept at a distance?
4. One can read Between the World and Me in many different ways.
It may be seen as an exploration of the African American experience, the
black American male experience, the experience of growing up in urban
America; it can be read as a book about raising a child or being one.
Which way of reading resonates most with you?
5. Coates repeatedly invokes the sanctity of the black "body" and
describes the effects of racism in vivid, physical terms. Coates’s
atheistic assertion that the soul and mind are not separate from the
physical body is in conflict with the religious faith that has been so
crucial to many African Americans. How does this belief affect his
outlook on racial progress?
6. Coates is adamant that he is a writer, not an activist, but critics
have argued that, given his expansive following and prominent position,
he should be offering more solutions and trying harder to affect real
change in American race relations. Do you think he holds any sort of
responsibility to do so? Why or why not?
7. Some critics have argued that Between the World and Me lacks
adequate representation of black women’s experiences. In her otherwise
positive Los Angeles Times review, Rebecca Carroll writes: "What
is less fine is the near-complete absence of black women throughout the
book." Do you think that the experience of women is erased in this book?
Do you think Coates had an obligation to include more stories of black
women in the text?
8. While much of the book concerns fear and the haunting effects of
violence, it also has moments where Coates explores moments of joy and
his blossoming understanding of the meaning of love. What notions of
hard-won joy and love does the book explore? How do these episodes
function in counterpoint to the book’s darker passages?
9. Do you think Between the World and Me leaves us with hope for
race relations in America? Why or why not? Do you think "hope" was what
Coates was trying to convey to readers? If not, what are you left with
at the end of the book? If so, hope in what?
10. What is the most important idea to take
away from Between the World and Me?