DISCUSSION QUESTIONS The Things We Cannot Say |
1. Which characters in this book were your favorites? Why? Alina and
Alice narrate the story—but is there another character you wish you
could have heard from directly?
2. Were you more engaged with Alina’s story or Alice’s? Why? Were you
satisfied with how the two story threads came together?
3. Aline lives a relatively sheltered life. How is her behavior shaped
by her family’s attitude toward her? How does she change over the course
of the story?
4. Alina, Julita, and Alice are all very different women within the same
family, although each has a unique approach to how she raises her
children. Do you think there’s a relationship between how each woman
approached motherhood, or do circumstance and personality play a larger
role here?
5. Why do you think Wade held himself at such a distance from Eddie? Why
did this damage his relationship with Alice so much? And why did Wade
and Eddie’s relationship change when Alice was away?
6. Tomasz was coerced to serve in the Wehrmacht and, in doing so,
inadvertently played a role in one of the most horrific chapters in
human history. How did this decision change the course of his life and
the life of his descendants?
7. What do you think Tomasz should have done when faced with the
pressure to comply with the Nazi agenda? Do you think he redeemed
himself once he deserted the Wehrmacht, or are some acts unforgivable?
8. Do you think Tomasz ever intended to follow Alina, or did he know all
along that he’d need to turn himself in after she left with Saul? And if
Tomasz had escaped to safety with Alina, would he have been able to
leave his guilt behind?
9. Take a moment to reflect on your own family’s story. Do you know much
about your grandparents’ early lives? How have your grandparents’
decisions in their youth affected your life? What questions do you wish
you could (or would you like to) ask them about their younger years? 10.Did you learn anything new as you read this book, and if so, what was it?
11. Which scene in The Things We Cannot Say affected you the most, and why? What emotions did that scene elicit?
* Some questions from Books a Million. |
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